You’re in the bookstore, and this cute girl stands next to you, browsing at magazines. After a few moments, she strikes up a conversation, and you aren’t sure if she’s flirting or just being friendly. If she curious how do you tell?
#1) Does she make eye contact with you? It a bonus if she looks you in the eye and smiles!
#2) Has she touched your arm or brushed against you at all. This could be a possible signal if she’s attempting to get into your space. She leans into you, and Should you return the gesture, it’s a pretty safe bet that she’s thinking what you are currently thinking.
#3) Does she have any tattoos which may give her away? A lot of lesbians are going to have some ‘pride’ tattoo. Have a look, it may be quite subtle, or it could be a great big rainbow, but you won’t know unless you take a look.
#4) Does she have any jewelry that may give her away at all? A rainbow ring, necklace, a labrys is an older symbol of empowerment for women and could be a clue as to her sexuality. A ring on the thumb was known to be an indicator of bisexuality and aring on their hand’s finger is worn by lesbians in a relationship. Finger rings, but the hand’s longest digit is the one.
#5) Does she play with her hair when she talks and smiles at you? This is the way a very femme woman will flirt. Start looking for the changes in her expressions, her face and her eyes. The hair flipping, together with all the above is almost a sure bet that you are being flirted with.
#6) Casually mention your “last girlfriend” and wait for her response. If there is no appearance of shock and she seems to be flirting with you, then she most likely is.
#7) Mention the name of a neighborhood gay club or pub and ask if she’s ever been there. If she is familiar and says she’s been there, then you are as good as gold, my friend. Ask her out!
#8) if you’re the adventurous sort, and you are somewhere close to a coffee shop or drink stand, ask her if she’d like something to drink and offer to get it. If she sits, readily accepts your invitation and talks with you, then most likely she’s interested in you!
#9) During your conversation, put your hand on the small of her back, very casually and direct her towards a door, seat, anywhere. It is her subconscious allowing you to take charge of the situation and points to her desire for you to do so if she easily moves with you. At that point, you should be confident to ask her for her number so you can “give her a call sometime.”
#10) Just come right out and ask her if all else fails. She seems interested, and you aren’t sure. Is to come right out and ask. Perhaps you say something sweet like “I don’t mean to offend you so please, take it as a compliment, but I would like to meet a girl just like you and get to know her. Any chance does lunch sometime, and you might give me your telephone number? ” You’re complimenting her and giving her outside all at the same time. You will be told by her if she interested in declining or accepting. She might even come right out and state “I thought that you ‘d NEVER ask! ”
Very good luck with your relationship. It isn’t easy to meet quality people out in public. A growing number of people are turning to the online relationship, but it certainly is much more fun to get that initial spark from the area and find an excuse and strike up a conversation. Maybe you will exchange both plays and glances hard to get? If you let yourself enjoy it, the relationship dance is an enjoyable one. Don’t allow your anxiety keep you from having a little fun. Flirting is good for the soul. even if the girl turns out to be straight.